Sexual Betrayal Trauma Coaching
My name is Caslyn Gillespie. I am a Certified Sexual Recovery Coach and Betrayed Partner Coach. I work with women and couples all over North America who find themselves in the unpredictable waves of Sex addiction, and from that, betrayal trauma.
If you are a Christian woman navigating your partner's sexual/porn addiction or repeat affairs, and looking for a deeper understanding and support through the pain, you’ve found the right place.
You didn't sign up for this.
You didn’t sign up to spend your evenings searching, looking through his phone, becoming an expert on how to heal from his affair or sexual addiction. To be scanning through his searches looking for keywords and phrases, to feel like you are constantly parenting your spouse, to be constantly losing sleep, chronically stressed. To be the “nagging, angry wife” wondering where the old 'you' went... wondering where the old 'him' went.
There is no one way to heal. There is no magic solution or podcast episode that will instantly take this pain away. Nobody can do the work that is required to heal from betrayal, besides you. It’s not the solution you’re looking for, I know. It might seem even more discouraging. I know.
What I can give you, is a place.
“Joy that is shared is double joy. Suffering that is shared is half suffering.”
I created the ‘arise’ program to connect suffering women with one another. It’s created as place to be. A space to come as you are, to be received without judgement, and to continually hear the words “me too.” To not be looked at with judgement or surprise, but to be looked at with a sense of belonging, understanding and most of all, safety.
You didn’t sign up for any of this. I doubt that being on this website was ever part of your plan, and frankly, I wish you were not here, reading these words.
But because you are, I want to offer you a place. You don’t have to do this alone. Yes, it’s scary.
Yes, it’s more work.
No, you shouldn’t even be here.
But we don’t heal from trauma to be able to handle more pain.
We heal to be able to hold the joy.
What is Partner Betrayal Coaching?
Being betrayed by your partner, whether its for the first time, or there has been an ongoing addiction for years, can be extremely distressing, even traumatic.
Betrayal Trauma is a type of deeply complicated grief, and navigating it alone can create even more trauma. Often those who don't have solid and safe support can start to feel that they are going crazy!
Betrayal Trauma Coaching offers guidance, support, resources, connection and encouragement as you navigate the stormy waters that is betrayal.
During coaching sessions with my clients, I cover topics such as :
Understanding Betrayal Trauma
Healthy Boundaries - What are they, and how to set them.
Self Care
Holding onto Faith
Identity and Self Worth
Coping with Emotions
Healing Shame and Guilt
Creating Support
Sexual Recovery
What to do when he wont recover.
